While anal is least pleasurable, and most risky. What we encourage guys to do is make realistic assessments of sexual pleasure and risk.īecause realistically - that is, based on the facts rather than what's fashionable or politically correct - Frot is most pleasurable and least risky FrotMen and The Man2Man Alliance are neutral on the question of oral sex. Still, you should be clear: if you know your partner, and are not promiscuous, you run less risk of contracting a contagious disease from Frot than you do from working in an office.Ī. Your best protection against STDs is to to know your partner, and not be promiscuous.įor that reason, and others, Frot Men, The Man2Man Alliance, and Heroic Homosex all support Fidelity. Jeffrey Klausner of San Francisco describe Frot as safer sex.Īlthough most Frot Men have never had an STD, in theory, you might be able to get genital warts - HPV - through frot. Which is why public health officials like Dr. There's never been a documented case of HIV transmission through Frot, and the risk for diseases like syphilis and herpes is extremely low. Because it's non-penetrative, Frot is a very, very low risk activity. Can I get a sexually transmitted disease (STD) from Frot?Ī. Just super hot, healthy, masculine sex which feels great for both guys simultaneously.Ībout health problems caused by anal penetration. No smell, no pain, no shit on the sheets. So the "pleasure" in being penetrated is "psychological" - which is a polite term for imaginary.Īnd because the anus isn't a vagina, and wasn't designed to be penetrated, it's easily damaged during penetration, leading not just to sexually transmitted diseases, but mechanical problems such as anal fissures - which are very painful and difficult to repair - and what gay men quaintly refer to as "leakage." Because anal penetration is dirty, dangerous, and degrading.ĭirty, because fecal material is always present in the anus and rectum ĭangerous, because anal is the primary vector for most sexually transmitted infections, some of which, like HIV, are universally fatal, and others, like hepatitis and syphilis, are potentially fatal and,ĭegrading, because anal turns a man into a pseudo-woman.īesides which, anal penetration isn't sex.Īn anus isn't a vagina, there's no genital tissue in the anus or rectum. There are some men who are into anal who also like to rub dicks, but what defines a Frot Man is that Frot is his primary m2m practice and he doesn't do anal. If a guy does anal and frot, can he be a Frot Man? Most guys are into girls and into other guys too.Ībout the true nature of men who have sex with men.Ībout the concept and reality of natural masculinity. Society may not tell you so - but it's true. So if you're into women and you also think about goin dick2dick with a guy - you're just a normal, average guy.
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In fact, Frot Dude, men have had sex with men since the beginning of time.Īnd it's particularly common for guys to have Frot fantasies because they discover as kids that it feels good to rub their dicks against the sheets or a pillow, and then as teens they often have experiences of getting hard when wrestling or rough-housing or otherwise having body contact with a buddy. Like we said in the first question, it's normal and natural for men to have same-sex needs and desires. Yet I have fantasies about going cock2cock with some other dude. I love sex with women and I've always considered myself straight. Throughout history and in all cultures, men have had sex with men.Īnd Frot itself is a masculine, natural, very low-risk and very hot way for a guy to connect sexually with another guy. Some Frot Guys identify as gay, some as bi, and some are straight-identified.īut most Frot Men understand that those gay-bi-straight labels are meaningless.įact is, it's normal and natural for men to have same-sex needs and desires.